REVIEW: Get Organized HQ Virtual Conference 2022

A couple weeks back was the Get Organized HQ virtual conference hosted by Get Organized HQ. I didn’t know much about this organization, but I saw Erica Lucas, Ashlynne Eaton mention it on their YouTube community tabs. It was free, so I thought I would give it a shot.

About the Conference and Getting a Ticket

The conference was free to attend. But the free ticket only gave you access to that day’s sessions and then you would lose access. For $29 – $49 USD (depending on when you got it), you could get the All-Access Pass that included full access to all the videos, summery notes of the sessions and a few other items.

I’m willing to put myself through from tortuous books for this blog. But until the blog is big enough to get sponsored, I’m not spending money for y’all! So this will only be a review of the free portion of the conference.

Getting the actual ticket was a bit of a mess. I tried using Erica’s link to get mine but none of the buttons on the site worked. I emailed their tech support, which was really responsive. They gave me a different link that also didn’t work. I was able to fix it by accessing the website in Incognito Mode of Chrome. So if you are reading this in 2023 and having the same issue at the next conference, try that.

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The format

The conference is not the same as going to an IRL one. The sessions are all pre-recorded videos, and in the Facebook group for the conference there’s a thread for each session.

The conference was Monday-Friday and there were over 100 speakers. It seemed like mostly YouTubers and Podcasters. Speakers that you’ve heard of if you follow my blog: Dana K. White (See my reviews of Decluttering at the Speed of Life, and Organizing for the Rest of Us), Diane Boden (see my review of Minimalist Mom).

I didn’t end up attending as many of the sessions as I would have liked for the fullest review. But I was busy with work and general life stuff. But based on the sessions I attended, I think I have enough info to let know you know if it’s worth attending next year.

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I’ll give mini reviews of each session and give final thoughts at the end.

Kay Patterson (The Organized Soprano) – Organized Work From Home Space

I’ve watched a few of Kay’s YouTube videos before and I like her content. I didn’t mind this session, but I did click out after noticing I wasn’t really paying attention. One thing that kinda bugged me about this sessions is that she would use a lot of stock footage. Which isn’t an issue, but she would use that instead of footage of her desk when she was referring to what she does at home. Despite her referencing her desk throughout the video, you don’t really see it that much.

Turns out she recycled the content for Get Organized HQ and this video below has more of the visuals I was missing:

Mariela Merino – Helping Friends and Family Declutter

Her session was 27 mins long, and I zoned out and clicked out at the 15 min mark. The information in the video wasn’t bad. I just found the video boring, so I upped the speed to 1.5x so I could wrap up the vid.

In general, it’s about being patient and slowly working though the process of helping your loved ones go through their stuff. She mentioned her experience of helping her borderline hoarder parents with decluttering their house, which was nice to have someone that’s done it talk on the process.

I think that the chapter about helping others declutter for Decluttering at the Speed of Life covers the same information if you feel like you’ve missed out.

I also think it’s good to get your parents to read The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning. I’ve sent it to my mom when she’s was mentioning her estate planning. I personally didn’t like the style it was written in but it’s got #BoomerHumor, which is maybe best since they’re the generation with all the stuff.

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Shireen Fitzgerald – Developing Minimalist Money Habits

This one I did watch the whole way, the first time I ran through it. It was about 25 minutes. The session can basically be summarized into the following:

  • Have a budget of your fixed expenses and look over your purchases of the past year and really reflect on it.
  • Figure out what you enjoy and what drives you and focus your time/money into that.
  • Find a way to save money on the stuff you get. Either by buying second hand, waiting for a sale, and maybe you won’t want it by the time it’s on sale
  • Get over the fear of missing out (FOMO) about stuff. If you get nice stuff, you get the #lifestylecreep and that will eat your budget very quickly.

The video was pretty meandering, I think if you want really focused tips to develop ‘minimalist’ habits you can watch these two videos in less time than Shireen’s session:

Christine (Frugal Fit Mom) – Cut Your Grocery Bill in Half With No Coupons

I think Christine is a good presenter and her video was tightly edited. But these tips are not particularly creative or unheard of. I’ll save you 26 mins by linking a couple random articles I found off of Pinterest that cover the same tips:

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Erica Lucas – How to Declutter and Organize Your Books at Home

I’ve been following Erica since Oct. 2019, so maybe I’m biased when I say this was the best session I watched. Maybe because it was ten mins long. She edited it nicely to show B-roll of the things she was taking about and the tips were decent.

Also she was the only person I watched that specifically mentioned Get Organized HQ, which makes me question if everyone else just submitted a random premade video. She did plug her own website and book decluttering resources so if the title of that talk interested you, just click this link.

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Hailey McAra – Organized Craft Room Tour

I love craft room tour videos. I used to always had craft room tours, soap making videos and planner videos running in the background when I was in university as I was doing homework.

I think she has a good way of organizing her room. I checked her YouTube Channel and she doesn’t seem to have a recent room tour, so that might have been a conference exclusive. She uses soooo much plastic and expensive containers, I cannot imagine someone that isn’t a professional implementing any of her storage methods. But the room is really really pretty.

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Diane Boden – Sentimental Decluttering

Diane… I’m pretty disappointed in you. This was the worst session I attended. Personally, I don’t think that Diane should have been discussing sentimental clutter. Based on her books and podcasts, she doesn’t come off as a particularly sentimental person.

This video was an interview between her and a conference host, and she took it from her car. I understand that sometimes you do stuff from your car: the acoustics can be decent, and your kids can’t bug you, but this was a planned interview. Why wasn’t she somewhere a touch more professional?

Also her advice was really boiler plate, generic stuff because she didn’t really have much experience with the areas the interviewer was asking about. Like the interviewer was asking about dealing with items that are left behind by a deceased loved one. Diane didn’t really have good advice, because fortunately she’s not had to live through that experience yet.

Overall a disappointing and pretty lazy interview.

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Tracy Lynn – Gradual Decluttering — Creating a Home You Love

I though this one was alright. Tracy is a good presenter and I liked that she had slides with good before and after shots.

Her method is about the slow declutter process. She mentioned that your clutter didn’t happen overnight, so getting it out shouldn’t either. And, honestly, more people need to hear that. I think that home decorating shows have given us all unrealistic expectations on that department.

Her main steps are the following:

  • Remove the trash
  • Put away stuff that doesn’t belong
  • Get a donation box in all the rooms in your house, and every time you see the box put an item into it. This way you will slowly get rid of stuff as you find them as you are just vibing through life.
  • Actually get rid of the stuff.

Seems straightforward and slightly different from the Slob Come Clean method.

The one part I really didn’t like: how much stuff she puts in her attic. Typically attics are not supposed to be load bearing, so I’m not surprised she was having structural issues before she started decluttering. This is your PSA to not put random crap in your attic. It’s designed to hold your roof and not your shit.

Is the conference worth it?

It’s Free. So yeah sure, it’s worth picking up a ticket to watch a couple sessions, and make sure you unsubscribe from the mailing list after everything’s done.

The real question is, is the All Access Pass worth it? I don’t think so. All the videos are privately listed on YouTube, so if enjoyed a particular video you can download it from there. Pretty much all the topics covered are available for free with a quick search on Google or Pinterest if you want something in a different format.

There is a Facebook group with 18K people that’s really active that you can access if you got a free or paid ticket. So if you need that constant reminder to declutter or sense of community, joining that might be a good option for you.

I didn’t find this particularly life changing, and a lot of the topics don’t apply to me as a childless, non-Catholic, Canadian renter. But the whole thing does mostly fit in with the stereotypical mommy blog style of organizing and decluttering. Which isn’t a bad thing, the size of the Facebook group shows there is a demand for that type of content even if personally it’s not for me.

Will I attend next year? If I remember, probably. It’s free and gives me content for the blog. If Laura and Tasha from Get Organized HQ end up reading this, let me do a session! I have suggestions: Finding Declutter Locations that aren’t Value Village, The Art of Having Your Declutter Box Sit in Your Car for a Year or How to Maximize Storing Seasonal Stuff at Your Parents House Without them Noticing and Ask You to Pay for Your Own Storage Unit.

(I know I’m being facetious, but legit, Laura/Tasha DM me if you are looking for people for next year).

Have you heard of Get Organized HQ? Or gone to any of the sessions that I missed. I would be interested in hearing about it, since I entered this really cold and don’t know anything about them or previous years.

Please share the blog with your friends, and maybe next year I can afford the All Access Pass and review that too.

BOOK Review: Minimalista by Shira Gill

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Minimalista is the first book by Shira Gill, an organizing expect who’s been featured pretty much anywhere fancy, Opera, Goop, Vogue and even one of my Dad’s favorite magazines, Dwell.

I didn’t know that she was that well known. I saw this book in Libby as a recommended title for the spring cleaning and put it on hold. I’m glad I read it, it’s probably one of the best minimalism books I’ve read this year.

I vibed with the way it was written, even if it’s sorta cheugy, girlbossy. I though Gill’s writing was funny and the information was clear and concise.

Part One is an overview of minimalism and how to declutter. This book is definitely more about the aesthetics of the minimalism rather than the lifestyle, as Part Two of the book is all about decluttering your space and how to style it.

Her vibe is very Pinterest-y and I hate to say it again, cheugy. Not the Minion memes part of the cheugy, but the hanging your wide brimmed hat on your wall as a statement piece part of cheugy.

From her website. Confirms she loves wide brimmed hats
From google but to show the vibe of the book

Part One of Minimalista is the better part in my opinion. She covers the steps of decluttering as well as how to get the stuff out of your house pretty well.

I thought Part Two was a tad long since it was a room by room breakdown. As someone who only really has three rooms in their apartment, most of that section didn’t apply to me.

The last comment I had about Minimalista, is something I liked, but makes me sound petty. I liked that this book has two very obvious digs at The Home Edit. I tried reading that book after trying to watch The Home Edit show on Netflix until my partner asked me to shut it off because of the yelling.

Gill comments on how her organizing system isn’t about making everything a rainbow, the staple of The Home Edit system. Gill also comments on how jars filled with spiral Oreos are really silly. Which are valid criticisms, since The Home Edit is definitely too focus on the visual aspect of home decor to the point where it seems like a hard system to actually live with.

I quickly Googled to see if there was any beef between the two brands and I didn’t find anything. It’s probably just that they are direct competition in the niche of “Female lead, home organizing brands which have been featured on Goop”.

Shira Gill would never…

To wrap up, I would recommend the book. If you were active on Pinterest at the height of its popularity, I think you would enjoy the vibe of this book the most.

The information is solid, and I found it still current, despite my dated references throughout this post suggesting otherwise. If you see it at the library, I would say give it a flip through. It’s probably worth looking at the physical copy over the digital. I read the book on my phone and I think some of the photos and layouts were lost in the digitization process, based on the pics of physical book I’ve seen online.

Two books I didn’t hate in a row? Is that even allowed? You can read my most recent book review of Minimal Mom by Diane Boden here, and see all my book reviews here. If you’ve heard of Shira Gill or this book before I would love to hear about it in the comments.

BOOK REVIEW: Minimalist Moms by Diane Boden

Another book I’m not qualified to review since I’m not a parent!

Minimalist Moms: Living and Parenting with Simplicity is the debut book by Diane Boden, the host of the Minimalist Moms Podcast. (Not to be confused with Dawn (or her twin sister Diane) who is The Minimal Mom and will pop up when you Google this book title).

I listened to the audiobook (which wasn’t narrated by the author which was a surprise given her job), and I enjoyed it. The book tackles a bit more the lifestyle of minimalism instead of physical ownership of items. Sure, she gives you tips on how to declutter your house. As well as standard comments on how minimalism isn’t about owning nothing and only wearing black. After that, the book does touch more on the day to day of living a #minimalistlife.

Boden mentioned that there are other books that cover the step by steps of decluttering in greater detail. She mentions Marie Kondo’s Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up. And disagrees with the idea of only keeping items that spark joy, since there’s stuff that doesn’t spark joy but are still useful. And one might end up keeping stuff only because it sparks joy without really exploring why it sparks that joy. Which I don’t fully disagree with, but I also think that she was taking Kondo’s main point a bit too literally in her criticism. But that part was like one paragraph that for some reason stood out.

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The main takeaway and only thing that I will remember from this book: she tier lists her friends. Like take everyone that you are currently friends with and figure out if they are BFFL, BFF, just a F or acquaintance. She said to cut everyone that isn’t a BFFL.

It’s a power move that she talked about this so openly in her book. She’s really only going to bother being friends with her sister and sister in law. But it probably feels bad for anyone that thought they were her friend and bought the book to support her, only to find out they aren’t worth the emotional labour.

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In general, I don’t have much to say about the book. A lot of the things covered are pretty standard stuff about minimalism. I think it was presented well, and I liked the voice of the audiobook narrator.

If a mother was standing at a book store trying to decide between this book or Declutter Like a Mother (my review here), I would 120% tell them to pick this one.

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Boden may tier list her friends, but I tier list minimalism books. And in my tier list, this book will comfortably sit in the “Do Not Remember Reading” tier. Right in the middle.

P.s. I’ve given Minimalist Moms Podcast a bit of a listen (like 2 episodes). There isn’t much to report back, yet. Pretty standard interviews with the guests. There’s a couple of podcast episodes that I’m interested in listening to, so I might update this portion if I hear anything of note.

BOOK REVIEW: Organizing for the Rest of Us By Dana K. White

Dana K. White is a staple is in the decluttering/minimalist space. I see her second book Decluttering at the Speed of Life referenced pretty regularly on r/declutter as the book to read if you are interested in owning less stuff.  

I read a portion of Decluttering at the Speed of Life a few years ago, but didn’t have the time to finish it before it was automatically returned to the library on Libby. From what I remember, I enjoyed it and planned to revisit it for the blog.  

Her most recent book Organizing for the Rest of Us: 100 Realistic Strategies to Keep Any House Under Control is not a decluttering book, it’s a cleaning, and home maintenance book.  

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This book is a pretty easy read. Each of the 100 strategies are only couple of pages and Dana K. White doesn’t expect you to incorporate all of them.

That being said, it did take a bit longer than expected to finish. Almost every time I picked it up, I would read a couple pages and I would get an urge to clean something. It feels weird to read about how you should do your dishes every day when your sink is full of the pots from yesterday’s dinner.  

So in a way, the book was pretty effective at its purpose for promoting an organized and clean home. Even if it’s not in the way she intended.  

The book discusses a concept of the three levels of cleaning, most of the strategies in the book fall into one of three different levels. They are the following:

1) Declutter

It’s hard to clean when you have too much crap that doesn’t have a home. She gives a very brief overview on how to declutter a space. And recommends reading her other book for more details. I think she gave the right amount of info for someone who hasn’t read her other works, but not bog down the pacing of this book. 

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2) Daily maintenance

This is the bulk of the strategies. White is a big believer small cleans every day. I understand why dishes every day or sweeping or laundry makes the longer term flow of the household nicer. In practice that isn’t something I want to do for myself.

3) Deep cleaning

This is like the tips for how to clean your baseboards. Or the big seasonal cleans that really elevates a space from tidy to clean.  

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Again each chapter/strategy is really short. The book isn’t heavy with many anecdotes or extra filler, which I appreciate. I enjoyed White’s voice throughout, she seems like a really funny person.  

Overall, I think the book is a quick read and good for people that need that kick in the butt to clean their space. Or are overwhelmed on how to do it.

I did notice that the things I resonated with most in this book (the levels of clean, daily dishes, laundry days) have their own blog posts of her website. If you are curious about this book I would start there, since she has years of content at your disposal.

If you are interested in reading any reviews of decluttering or minimalism, book you can read my rankings of Minimalism and Decluttering books here.

Disclosure: I received a free digital copy of this book off of NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

BOOK Review: Consumed by Aja Barber

Consumed by Aja Barber Book cover

If you pay attention to any sustainable fashion Instagram or social media, you’ve probably heard of Consumed, the first book by Aja Barber.  

The book is a pretty recent release (Oct 2021). I think I’m the first person to read the copy from the library since it was in spotless condition. Which doesn’t effect my review, I’m just happy it happened.   

Consumed: The Need for Collective Change: Colonialism, Climate Change, and Consumerism is the full title of the book and the book’s thesis statement. Aja Barber covers a lot of ground in a relatively short book and I think she does really well. 

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The book is spilt into two parts. I’ll just use the description on Aja’s website since it’s more concise than anything I could write:  

Part one: I expose you to the endemic injustices in our consumer industries and the uncomfortable history of the textile industry; one which brokered slavery, racism and today’s wealth inequality. 

Part two: In the second ‘unlearning’ half of the book, I will help you to understand the uncomfortable truth behind why you consume the way you do. 

Aja’s writing style is really inviting and it feels like a friend talking about something they’re super passion about. Like instead of a researcher/journalism trying to lecture you. There were so many moments I wanted to Snapchat or post what I was reading of my Instagram. I was really connecting with what was written and wanted to share it with people!

As mentioned earlier, the book covers a lot of ground and deals with many difficult topics. Such as the condition of garment factories, destruction of the environment, racism in the fashion industry and more. 

I think she covers all the topics really well and sensitively. Although, one criticism I have: there were spots I wish she went a bit deeper. I’ve read some of the books referenced and I think it would have strengthen her points if she included more info from those books here. 

One example being the Bangladesh factory fires. I think it would have benefited with more details for people that didn’t know that happened or forgot about it. Like a couple more sentences just explaining the impacts. Like how the doors were chained. Or that a lot of the survivors or families didn’t get any compensation from the fund raising or government. Would have helped really shine a light on how shit these manufacturing conditions can be.

I believe Aja was trying not to be too much of a downer. I also think she assumes the reader may know more about some of these topics before picking up the book. So I understand why some topics were kept on the shorter side.

The second half of the book is about unlearning and the actionable steps a consumer can take. The main one she mentioned is writing to law makers. And there’s an example letter! Additionally, introductions is open letter Aja wrote to fast fashion companies. That one isn’t one you can copy since it was specific to her. But between the two of them, you got a good starting point to help you write your own letter.  

I love example letters!

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This book is one of the few new releases that mention Covid and didn’t annoy me the heck out of me. Fast fashion companies have fucked over so many garment workers over the past few years. It really drives home about what she’s been writing that took place before 2020. Fast fashion will take any opportunity, including a pandemic to be…   

If/when this book gets a second edition it would be interesting to see what the updates will be. So far, they are pretty depressing… I believe there are some lost wage class actions that have been filed since publication. 

Update since writing the draft review: there’s been a few wins. See below:

Apart for the normal, write to the government, and stop buying crap from Shein, she does include other tips. I think that her approach is very nuanced. Aja Barber seems aware that for the regular person, fully quitting fast fashion is a marathon, not a race. Additionally, the tips aren’t the same as once I’ve read in other books or online.  

Overall, I loved the book and I’ve been recommending it to all my friends! I recommend it to you too. It was really eye opening without being too overwhelming.


If you are interested in review of other books about fast fashion, I have one for Fashionopolis by Dana Thomas. You can also find all my book reviews here.

BOOK REVIEW: Declutter Like a Mother by Allie Casazza

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Declutter Like a Mother is the most recent book by stay-at-home mom, turned blogger, turned entrepreneur, Allie Casazza. She found many benefits in decluttering/minimizing. This book explores the steps she’s given her consulting clients to go through their belongings.

Before I get too deep into the review, I got this book off NetGalley. So I didn’t pay for this book (thanks). But most importantly, I’m not the intended demographic for this book: I’m not a mother. Casazza does mention early on that this book can be read by anyone. But I got called Mama enough times, that I’m not convinced that this is true.

My largest gripe about this book and something that makes it feel less evergreen, despite it being a new release (Sept 2021) is the number of references to her programs and website. Very early in the book you discover that this book is basically a promotion tool for her online program for decluttering your home (priced at $397 USD at the time of writing). The chapter on tackling children’s bedrooms seems sparse, and Casazza happens to offers a program on her website specifically for decluttering children rooms ($349 USD).

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You can definitely read the book and follow the steps and likely get a declutter. But the majority of the steps are really light on details. Which is a mixed bag. I dislike books that are too repetitive when it comes to the declutter process (The Minimalist Home was slightly guilty of this). But this swung the other direction.

For example, the Chapter about clothing. Which is big enough of a topic that there are many books just tackling that, was really really vague. She mentioned keeping what fits and you enjoy having. Then goes on a multi-paragraph discussion of how her favorite underwear are the high-rise Spanx, and why it’s her favorite. I didn’t find that helpful to my own closet pair down process.

But that is jumping ahead…

The closet isn’t the first area she recommends you declutter. Which is very refreshing for this style of book. That fresh feeling was short lived though. Because the title of the chapter starting the declutter method dang near killed me:

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Some people may find that chapter title funny. Maybe people will appreciate random Fergie reference from a song that came out in 2003, that was used in another chapter title. But I just find the writing style very dated. I would have completed believed you if you had told me this book came out in, like, 2014-2017 during the high of the Chevron, mint green, maxi dress era of life.

The book is a very easy read.

Despite me thinking the writing style was dated, it was straightforward, and easy to follow. I wish the book was more detailed, and didn’t reference her website as much. After the chapters about the declutter, she did have a FAQ and testimonial section that was an interesting addition. I would have liked it expanded as well. She mentions having clients, I would loved to know more about of their common road blocks and how to get past them. But I guess that’s something only people in the paid course get to know.

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But what did she suggest to do to declutter like a mother?

In general, you are asked to visualize the intention you have for the space and keep items that serve that purpose. She was really clear at multiple times in the book, that the program isn’t about minimalism, but “it’s about having less of what doesn’t matter in order to make room for what does”

I actually did a bunch of research to confirm that sentence wasn’t plagiarized from one of the minimalism girlies. I was that convinced that I had read that before somewhere else. But that’s a me problem, not the books.

She calls her lifestyle “simplicitism”, which feels impossible to pronounce and harder to explain. But it’s minimalism: the movement, not the aesthetic or art style. There was a whole chapter about how to keep going and not let the idea of minimalism (dudes that only own three shirts and can fit everything they own in a backpack) distract you from how you want your space to be used.

Sidebar: I’m kinda annoyed that the aesthetic of a minimalist lifestyle is so ingrained in the movement. Like it feels like anyone that doesn’t only wear black has to over explain or dissociate with the philosophy. Which feels silly in a time where we really should be stopping our overconsumption as society. For a bunch of reasons that I don’t need to get into right now. Like, I guess I’m guilty of that too. This whole blog is about how I’m not a minimalism, but enjoy reading about it. I’ve read enough books trying to dispel the myths of minimalism to see this is a trope of the genre. I think this book was the one that continued about it the longest.

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I’m not saying these two are the reason everyone feels they have to justify their minimalism exitance, but I’m not not saying that either. /EndSidebarRant
I have a few other notes that I want to include here. As I didn’t know where else to put it:
  • There is talk of god and religion. It’s only in the introduction and afterword if that’s something you would want to skip over.
  • Really encourages buying containers or tray for each room. This feels like something you should wait until your declutter more spaces before doing. Mostly to confirm you don’t already have something that would do the job.
  • She wants you to get rid of all your glasses and mugs and only use mason jars.
  • “Life is too short to drink out of a fugly mug” – Page 93.
  • I haven’t read Girl Wash Your Face or other books by Rachel Hollis. So I might be out of line, but I find there are a fair amount of similarities. Both talk about poop in there books, both are small business owner turn book/internet empire, and both quote Maya Angelou. Allie, unlike Racheal, attributes the quote. So that’s a plus to this book for sure!
  • I briefly checked out the Goodreads reviews after writing my first draft of this post. Despite Allie really not wanting this book to be about minimalism, most positive reviews mentioned that’s what they got from it.

Would I recommend this book?

I’m learning more towards No than Yes. I do think that Allie does fill a niche in the ‘owning less crap’ space, even if it’s not really for me. But I don’t think the book provides enough info to its reader. Additionally, I don’t think its effective enough at it’s main goal: funneling people into joining her course. Like people are already paid for a product and it didn’t provide that much value. How can we be sure the next product won’t be the same…

This book is going into the “Marge Simpson going Mmmm” level of my tier list of book reviews (Link here to the whole list). You can also go there for more reviews of book I’ve read for the blog. The book isn’t terrible, and I’m pretty sure I’ll remember it. At the same time, it’s not really a value add.

That’s pretty much all I had for this book. Allie does have podcast. I’ve listened to one episode, and I have some thoughts. I will listen to a few more, and probably make a separate post about that in the future.

Update 2022-05-08:

So I was minding my own business, scrolling Pinterest and an old blog post of Casazza’s popped up on my feed. A Beginner’s Guide to a Minimalist Home and the introduction of this book are the same. The first seven paragraphs about walking around your home are basically verbatim. This explains why I thought the book had such intense mint green chevron vibes, they literally do.

Parts of the blog post were edited, but the majority was the same. I did a really quick scan of some of her other posts and didn’t see any moments this obvious of self-plagiarism, but many of the blog titles got reused.

This cements my feeling that this book was a lazy project to push her courses. I don’t think that she needs to write 100% new content for the book, but also think it’s weird to keep so much of it the same.

I personally don’t like a lot stuff I wrote 5 years ago and would likely rework it a lot if it was going to a publisher. I guess I assumed others would have a similar feeling.

If you have any thoughts about that, I would love to know.

BOOK REVIEW: Love People, Use Things by The Minimalists

The full title of this book is Love People, Use Things Because the Opposite Never Works. A saying pretty regularly touted by the Minimalists – Joshua and Ryan.  

The Minimalists are not new to having me review their work. I have a review of their second Netflix Documentary (Review HERE). Additionally, I’ve also mentioned a few times in other posts that I do not enjoy their work. I gave their podcast the good college try back in 2017/2018. I believe that they haven’t been able to produce a new idea since they first started their blog ten years ago.  

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Now that I disclosed my bias, I want to make clear that I wanted to like this book, or for it to surprise me. I don’t like the idea of torturing myself for 10 hours for this blog (at least not until I get monetized… someone pls sponsor me). I went into the audiobook listening experience with good intentions, despite me not liking the authors.  

Unfortunately, this book did not surprise me… And the book mildly annoyed me for about 8 hours.  

I borrowed the book on Libby and once I started, I procrastinated continuing listening to it. When it automatically returned, I still had about two hours of run time left and I didn’t care.

In fact, I actually ended up listening to the podcast about the Elizabeth Holmes trial in the last hour I had the book for because it was way more interesting.  

The book was published in July 2021. If you are reading this in the future and don’t remember, that was still in the height of the Covid-19 global pandemic. The book isn’t very shaped by the pandemic, with the exception of the Preface. Below is a passage I wrote on my phone when I heard it in my audiobook: 

“In many ways [this book is] a pandemic preparation manual. If only we could have gotten this book into the hands of the struggling people before the spread of the virus. We would have prevented a great deal of heartache. Because intentional living is the best form of preparation.”  

That passage rubbed me the wrong way, for a lot of reasons. This passage is mostly referencing preppers and people that panic bought toilet paper at the start of the pandemic. As well, as people becoming aware of how uncomfortable their physical spaces made them, since they had to be home all the time. Both of those are real, and kinda privileged things that happened. But no amount of people living a minimalist life would have prevented COVID and the loss of life for millions of people around the world. In fact, the most effective preparation would have been to strengthen our healthcare systems, and paying our healthcare/essential workers an equitable wage and get the vaccine. Things that minimalism can’t fucking fix…  

Anyways, enough of me being frustrated by the pandemic, and back to the book.  

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In the Preface Joshua, the blonde Minimalists in the photos and main narrator of the book, mentions that if you know the Minimalist, Chapter 1 will be repetitive. So they are becoming somewhat self-aware.  

The last comment I had about the Preface was the stat that 95% of discarded clothing can be reused or recycled. But for some reason, they didn’t include that very little of the textile waste stream is sold secondhand, reused or recycled and that annoyed me (About 80% goes to landfill btw).

As mentioned before, and in other posts. The Minimalists are really dated and haven’t evolved in the past ten years. This couldn’t have been more obvious than when Joshua was discussing marketing and Billboards with ads for skinny jeans? Hello? 2011 called and they want their fashion trends back. Also, Billboards? Honey, if that isn’t an undisclosed sponsorship on Instagram or Tiktok, is it really an clothing ad? 

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I didn’t know until I was doing research for this post, but it’s part memoir. I believe they already have memoirs, so I don’t understand why this book had to be one too.

The first part of the book is detailing the Minimalists’ journey, that we’ve all heard before. As well, it goes deep on how terrible people Joshua and Ryan were before they found minimalism. Like both cheated, Ryan drove under the influence a bunch of time (luckily not killing anyone). I think they are trying to open up about these negative traits they used to have as a way to show that you need to be truly honest and open, since lying just leads down bad roads. 

I don’t think it landed the way they planned. There’s just such a privilege that comes with being able to talk about your drug use, and possible history of being a drug dealer (as I understood it, I totally could be wrong, don’t quote me, this isn’t libel) in a book without any real consequences.  


This feels extremely mean to write, but Joshua needs to go into therapy to talk to a professional about his mom. He spend a lot of time about his mom with a lot of anecdotes. Which some people might find interesting. But the volume of it… it’s so boring…. I probably could have finished the book on time if like two mom anecdotes were cut from the book. (like the hot dog joke for sure, that didn’t bring anything to the table. I won’t retell it but it’s not good). We, as your audience, will never care about your mom the way you do.

Joshua if you have the misfortune of reading this post: It seems like you still have a lot of complicated feelings you need to work through. Please talk to a professional about it!  

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Anyways… I actually probably should mention the format of the book. Each chapter is about a relationship (with your stuff, with yourself, others, money etc). I forgot that was the plan until Ryan would show up in my ear telling me some minimalist tips, and some exercises that reflect what was learnt in the chapter.

So Joshua would just chatter about his relationship with himself and I was supposed to learn something from that? I did try for the first couple chapters and looking back on my notes for this post. I have the following:  

Relationship 1 (Stuff), Question 4 – What is the real cost (beyond money) holding on to your items is costing you?  

  • Time dusting  
  • Partner complaining I have too many plants  
  • Time packing and unpacking when I move.  

Relationship 1 (Stuff), Question 6 – What did you learn about your relationship with material stuff this chapter? 

  • Nothing. Y’all ain’t original lol 
  • Idk… I probably should probably downsize in preparation for my next move, again.  
  • Straight up, forgot the chapter minus the skinny jean comment.  

Final thing, they quote Jordan Peterson and Dave Ramsey. Icons! 🙄 🙄🙄 #IYKYK

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If you couldn’t tell, I hated this book! Like, way more then I wanted to or expected to. Typically Minimalists content makes my eyes roll a bit but I can get over it. But after listening to ¾ of this book I should probably book an optometrist appointment to make sure my eyes didn’t pull a muscle or something from how hard they were working. Despite me not using them to read the book.

I can’t recommend this book. It was far too long, covers no ground and made me lose what little respect I did have for The Minimalists.  

Not to be fully negative: Below is a tweet-able sentence that I like in regard letting go of physical as well as emotional things.  

A willingness to let go, is one of life’s most mature virtues”.  

I thought that was nice, and there were a couple small lines, here and there, of a similar nature that were alright.  But not enough to read the book. You can find listicles online of the best quotes if you are interested.

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Anyways… If you are curious about books that I actually finished, you can read my rankings of Minimalism and Decluttering books here.

I threw this Drew Gooden video at the end of my review of the documentary. I’m sharing it again because I love it and he hits on the points I have, but funnier than me:

BOOK REVIEW: Live More, Want Less by Mary Carlomagno

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Live More, Want Less is the fourth book by Mary Carlomagno. A professional organizer and public speaker. This book was released in 2011.

The full title is: Live More, Want Less: 52 Ways to Find Order in Your Life. I scoffed when I read the title… Why would anyone want to read 52 ways to do anything. Which is foreshadowing to my experience reading this book.

The idea of 52 is one area of focus a week for a year. If anyone got that far… Full disclosure, I was not able to finish this book. I got to Chapter 25, I noticed that not a single thing in the past five chapters sunk in.

I think the book mentioned saying ‘No’ to stuff that adds stress to one’s life. I’m taking that advice to heart and have returned it to the library.

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Below are bullet points notes I took as I read along:

  1. Chapter Two is called “Procrastinators Read This First”. How would we know to read this first? It’s the second chapter… Lord knows how long before we would get to that point in the book.  
  • Each chapter is really really short. Usually just an ancedote with some daily “practices”, which aren’t even that actionable.
  • “I recycle my schedule which made me feel eco savvy.” Mmmm…. Ma’am. That’s not how that works.
  • The author is very woowoo and believes in the Law of Attraction. Which isn’t a good sign. 
  • Each chapter kinda reminds me of something you would read in a horoscope.  

I don’t know who this book was written for! The book is too vague and unguided for self-help Newbies and too redundant for Veterans. I suppose it could be Baby’s second or third self-help book, but it’s written like crap. So I wouldn’t want that experience for anyone.  

To conclude, I wasted more time and effort on this book than it’s worth. I have a long TBR list and I’m just going to move on to the next thing. I want to live more, by wanting less of this book’s existence.

If you are curious about books that aren’t a waste of time, you can read my rankings of Minimalism and Decluttering books here.

BOOK REVIEW: Minimal by Laurie Barrette and Stéphanie Mandrea

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Laurie Barrette and Stéphanie Mandrea are two childhood friends and the owners of the Quebec brand Dans le SacWhich primarily sells reusable fabric bags, as they transitioned into a low waste, minimalist lifestyle. I attended a virtual interview that Indigo (a Canadian Bookstore) did with the authors. They seem quite nice. The few things I really remember about their talk (I lost the page I wrote my notes on) was their idea of Zero Waste, which isn’t trying to having all your trash for the year fit in a mason jar. But more the 5 Rs: Refuse, Reduce, Reuse, Recycle, Rot.

The book is a pretty short read at about 220 pages, Libby said that I finished the book in about 2 hours. Overall, I enjoyed it. There’s a lot of lists and DIY projects for different areas of the home and life, such as cleaning products, skincare and baby bum sprays to help live a low impact life.

I enjoyed the first couple chapters the most and got the most information out of them. They might be a bit basic, but cover the ideal of minimalism, the impact of humans on the environments and the idea of making ones on products to have more control of what is entering ones personal environment.

From the cleaning chapter onwards, they started to loose me a bit. Barrette and Mandrea really love essential oils! I have a below average sense of smell, so I don’t care about aromatherapy or essential oils. Also there’s a few really large multi-level marketing companies that sell oils. And that sales/company structure isn’t something I believe is ethical. To be clear, they weren’t pushing a certain brand or anything like that, just my prior knowledge of essential oils going into this book make me have a generally negative option about them.

I truly disagree with one point they had in there book. That was that essential oils are good for the planet. They mention that oils “triggered their green journey”. Kinda ironic given how material intensive the process can be (like 10,000 lbs of roses for one 1lbs of rose oil).

Also they encouraged putting essential oils on babies, they did have a disclaimer that it’s “controversial” to put these types of oils on babies but their didn’t have any issues with their kids. John Hopkins has an article with recommended amounts/usage. But I personally don’t think it’s a great idea. I’ve used tea tree oil on my skin before, and found it burnt a lot so I can’t imagine how a baby would feel.

I don’t have children but I did enjoy the chapter about raising minimalist kids that are environmentally conscious. A lot of it just leading by example but they have this list of environmentally friendly family actives that I just found really charming. Examples, like making salt dough, building bird houses, and growing veggies. That list is without a doubt my favorite part of the book.

At the end of the day it’s a pretty easy read, with really lovely photos, and with content you can find mostly on their website or if you spent enough time on Pinterest. I did read an interview with them that has a quote, that I think captures their intent with this book: “Packed with DIY project ideas, practical tips for reducing waste, and utterly drool-worthy photos, Minimal is a must read whether you’re motivated by love of the planet, the ‘gram, or both.”

To conclude, I would have enjoyed less essential oil talk, but others may not find it as annoying. If you see this book at a book store or the library I would say give it a quick flip through and read the kid friendly activity list but I don’t recommend spending money on it.

You can find some of my other minimalism review here.

BOOK REVIEW: Project 333 by Courtney Carver

I’ve heard of Project 333 a few times over the years, so I was really surprised to find that this book was published March 2020. The concept of Project 333 is very simple. You only wear a combination 33 items of clothing (included shoes and accessories) for 3 months.

Project 333: The Minimalist Fashion Challenge that Proves Less Really is So Much More is the second book by Courtney Carver. She’s been featuring Project 333 on her blog for a few years and this book is an extension of the concept (about ten years after she started it). Which explains why I’ve heard of it before. Some Minimalist YouTubers I watch have mentioned the book and author before.

The Actual Review Part:

The book is a tad slow to start. It takes until Chapter 11 before she officially introduces the rules of Project 333. The majority of the chapters before were about her journey with finding minimalism and answering a lot of the questions people typical have about the project. The book does assume you sorta understand the high level concept of the project before introducing it. I think that the rules should have been introduced sooner before the FAQ .

The idea, as mentioned at the top, only wearing 33 items of clothing for a period of 3 months. There are some exemptions, such as wedding ring/sentimental jewelry, workout gear, under garments, lounge wear (only to be worn exclusively at home. Leggings you wear out to do groceries or whatever count to your 33 items), and work uniforms.

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She has more that 33 items, as some items are seasonal. That’s why the project is three months, to match the seasons. But she has way less that 132 items, since most of her closet carries over.

After the chapter with the rules and looking at her closet, the clothing declutting process, the book goes a bit more ‘woo woo‘ or metaphysical about the larger knock on effects of having a small closet. Lots talk about mediation, the joys of quiet moments, not having to clean as much, downsizing. The standard package of a minimalism book. Although she made no comments about losing weight, and she was pro renting. So 4/6 minimalism tropes isn’t bad.

Overall, I enjoyed the book. I don’t know if it will be everyone’s cup of tea, since it’s a rather repetitive. I can also imagine her tone of her writing wouldn’t be everyone’s favorite (you can tell she was a blogger first). There were moments as I was reading I was going back and forth on if I enjoyed the style or not.

If you are looking exclusively for the rules of Project 333, her website (https://bemorewithless.com/project-333-challenge/) is definitely the resource for you.

The book was a light quick read filled with 80’s pop references and generally has feel good motivational vibe.

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I feel for the author, her book was published at a really bad time to start the Project. Since most people have been working from home since publication. In general clothing and fashion haven’t been a main priority for most people. 

Although it will be interesting to see how that effects peoples clothing choices. I know for me, I’ve been wearing around the same 30 items. But that’s because I’ve been living in sweatpants and hoodies, unless I have to go to site or have a cameras-on zoom meeting. Imagine a worst version of what a typical university student would wear during exams, but for the past year and a half. 

When reading the book I was thinking I would do the project and see how I feel about it. Last weekend I was planning on going through my closet and sort what I want to keep, since I was inspired by the book. But I made scones and took at nap instead.

The next recommended start time is September 1st, so I have the summer and maybe slight return to pre-covid times to help me plan my choices. If I do it, I’ll do my best to document and report back on how I feel about it. I can also start in July or any other time. I have some other decluttering projects I want to tackle in the immediate term, but I do want to circle back and try this.

You can find more minimalism book reviews here.